Who hasn’t dreamed of having sex in a car? Hell, many of us have probably had sex in a car at some point. Most of us have probably never done it properly, though. Sex in a car is a fantastic thing, but it is bloody difficult to get right. On this page, we are going to teach you how to have sex in a car properly. Well, at least a few tips on making car sex feel as fantastic as possible.
Remember, the tips on this page are just tips. You won’t be an expert on car sex before the end of it. This is the sort of thing that you really have to try to ensure that things feel as great as possible for both you and your partner. Car sex that is right for us may not necessarily be right for you, after all. Let’s dive in, shall we?
Tips on How to Have Sex In a Car
We are going to start with the heavy hitter.
Many people dress up car sex as this magical thing that is going to feel oh so fantastic. The truth is that cars are difficult to move about in. You could have the physique of a catwalk model, but you will still find that car sex can be a little bit difficult to get right sometimes. You have to learn how to be flexible and put the discomfort to one side.
Put in this way, you probably won’t be having car sex as much as you think. This is more a spontaneous type of sex rather than one you plan well in advance. Although we must say, it is still great to drive to a romantic location and have passionate intercourse in a car. Just don’t do it too often.
Protect your privacy
We don’t know if you noticed, but cars have windows. This means that people can potentially look into these windows if you are having sex in the car. Over the next few tips, we will try and help you ensure that the risk of people looking in on your sexual escapades is kept to the absolute minimum. However, you always do still have to think, “there could be somebody here.”
This means that you are going to need to find something to cover up the windows. Towels and t-shirts will work well for this sort of thing.
Remember, in most places. It is illegal to have sex in a public location. It will be even more illegal if somebody can actually see you have sex in that public location, so do your best to keep it hidden.
Do not use a very public location.
Having car sex in a forest in the middle of nowhere is fine.
Having car sex in a car park is not fine.
If you are going to do things properly, then you really need to make sure that you are as far away from people as you possibly can be. We know that some people have a kink of getting caught. However, now is not the time to play into that kink. It is one thing to be caught in your household. It is another to be caught shagging outside and dealing with a prison sentence or a hefty fine.
In our opinion, the more secluded locations are always the best place to have car sex if you want something a bit more romantic anyway, so this part shouldn’t be that much of a problem.
Check for dogging sites
If you don’t know what dogging is, it is a type of sexual kink where you have sex in your vehicle, and other people look in through your windows.
Now, we are not saying that you should be looking for dogging sites so that people can look in on you. We are saying that you should be looking for dogging sites so that you can avoid them.
You will actually be surprised at how many popular dogging sites there may be around the area where you live. We have heard many stories of people randomly having sex in their vehicles only to find people looking in through their windows. We guess this can be quite a scary experience!
Of course, you could always play into this kink and actually enjoy having sex at dogging sites. However, do bear in mind that it is going to be illegal. Police will often crawl the well-known dogging sites, so you are at risk of being caught.
Don’t be too loud
While a moving car is great at masking sound due to the engine running, they are not so great at masking sound when the car is parked. The car doors are going to be incredibly thin, after all.
If you are a fan of being loud during sex, you will need to learn how to shut up if you plan to do it in a car. You will attract attention. It is probably going to be even worse if you are doing it in the middle of nowhere. That sound will echo!
Do you really want people to be hearing your moans for miles around?
Make yourself comfortable
Cars are designed for transport. They are not designed for sex.
As we said before, the inside of the car is going to be pretty small as it is. This means that you are going to be wrestling with the discomfort of that. You probably do not want to make sex even more uncomfortable for yourself.
Bringing pillows and blankets along on a trip where you could potentially be having sex in a car is a great idea. They will just add an extra level of comfort and it will make sex a whole lot more pleasurable as a result.
To be honest, since pillows and blankets are so damn useful as it is, we recommend that you should load your vehicle up with them anyway. Even if you are not planning on having sex in your car, it is still great to have some pillows and blankets in your trunk. You never know when you are going to need them.
Wear comfortable and appropriate clothing
Let’s go back to moving around that in that vehicle. You literally cannot do it. When you have sex in your home, you probably have tons of space to just rip off your clothes You don’t have that luxury in a vehicle. Not to mention the fact that if you do get caught, you probably do not want to be completely stark naked. You have to have some plausible deniability here, right? You could just say you were making out!
For women, we recommend wearing a dress or skirt. No underwear is preferable. This means that you do not have to worry about taking any of your clothes off during sex. Ideally, whatever shirt you wear (or dress, if you are going down that route) will have some opening where your lover can play with your tits. It isn’t necessary. We are sure that he can survive having sex once without a bit of boob play.
A man just needs a pair of pants where he can pull his dick out easily. Since most pants are going to be fine for this, this shouldn’t be too much of a problem.
Keep the foreplay to a minimum
We are not saying that there should be no foreplay at all. We understand that foreplay is going to be important to get everybody in the right mood. It also helps to make sex so much more pleasurable. However, don’t expect foreplay to last hours upon hours. It needs to be quick enough to make the woman wet and the man hard.
Once again, space is going to be a concern here. Pretty much no foreplay techniques are going to work in the vehicle outside of maybe a blowjob and a bit of light fingering. Secondly, you need to make sure that you finish with sex as quickly as possible. No matter you have parked your vehicle, you are still in a public location which does carry a very, very real risk of being caught.
Turn off the car lights
We are back to how you shouldn’t really be drawing attention to yourself with this one.
It is likely that your car’s headlights will be turned off. If they aren’t, that is ridiculous. You may as well have a loudspeaker screaming “come watch us, we are having sex here”. if you are parked, turn your headlights off otherwise people will come and watch you, or at least come and check whether you are OK.
In the vehicle, you are going to need to keep those lights turned off too. This means that you will need to have sex in the dark. We are sure that you can cope. If you have properly covered up the windows, then not a lot of light will be getting through. We know it doesn’t sound all that sexy, but you may want to let your eyes adjust to the light a little bit before you start to get down and dirty with one another.
Use Backseat instead of the front seat
Never use the front seat for car sex. We have seen so many people do it, and the idea is completely baffling to us. If you use the front seat of your car for sex, then you literally have a tiny seat to have sex on. The number of options for sex positions will be quite limited too.
Pretty much all you can do is let somebody ride you, and they will probably be banging their head against the car ceiling as they do. Not to mention the fact that you will be forever banging against the steering wheel, gear stick, and dashboard. There is no greater way to put somebody off the idea of having car sex than having sex in the front seat.
At least if you use the backseat you will have a ton of space available to you. It won’t be quite the same size as a bed, but it should come pretty damn close.
Choose the Right Sex Position
As you can probably guess, most standard sex positions are not going to work in a car. There is enough space for them. You can try and experiment with sex positions, but you will probably spend more time trying to twist yourself into awkward positions than actually having sex. Luckily for you, there are several car sex positions that have been designed specifically for car sex. You won’t be able to do most of these in a bed, but when you have limited space and you are in a car in the middle of nowhere then they are going to be all the rage.
You may want to experiment with a few of these positions in your car to find the one that works best for you. Remember, you will not be able to have anal sex in your vehicle. Well, you may be able to do so with the backseat doggy position, but we wouldn’t really recommend it. None of these positions lend themselves all that well to anal sex. You would never be able to get the angle quite right and it will make things way more painful than they need to be.
This is one of only a few positions that could reasonably work in the front seat of a car, but we still wouldn’t really recommend it. This position will involve the man sitting down and the woman climbing on top of him, facing him, and just riding his cock. Due to the height of the vehicle, the movements that the woman makes will have to be quite subtle. In this position, it may actually work a little bit better fi the man is putting in most of the effort when it comes to thrusting, just be gentle.
The seashell position
A woman will have to be quite flexible to enjoy this position. Their body is, essentially, going to be bent in half as they lay backward. This means that their legs will be pushed back so the feet are close to the head. It doesn’t take up a lot of space, and it feels ridiculously good. It can be quite painful on the hips if you are not used to this position, though. This is actually one that you could try out in the bedroom if you want. Many people end up loving it once they get used to it.
Backseat doggy position
This is just your typical doggy style sex just on the backseat. This sex position may actually be a bit trickier for many people due to the lack of space on both the seat and in terms of the height of the vehicle. if you find doggy style sex difficult normally, then it certainly isn’t going to get that much easier if you are in a car.
This is a position that tends to work best if the woman is quite short, or if you have an SUV. We wouldn’t really recommend trying it out in a smaller vehicle. In those situations, we reckon that it would probably just be a touch too uncomfortable.
Saddle Straddle position
This is a sex position that comes from the kama sutra, so you know it is going to be good. Obviously, it isn’t designed for cars, but it can be adapted to vehicles. This position is pretty similar to the cargirl position. However, you will want to tilt the seats back slightly. This way the man is leaning backward and the woman is leaning into him. It allows the penis to get a little bit deeper without taking up huge amounts of space.
Road head position
This is a position that we wouldn’t really recommend, but most of you will probably try anyway. The road head is while the man is driving but receives a blowjob at the same time. Obviously, this can be quite dangerous if the vehicle is in motion. It does lose a little bit of its pizzazz if the car is parked, though. We will leave it up to you to decide whether the road head is going to be the best position for you when it comes to car sex.
So, there you have it. Tons and tons of information on having sex in a car. As we said at the start, this information is only going to get you so far. This is the sort of thing that you really have to experience for yourself to find out whether it is for you. So, ask your partner if they fancy going on a trip somewhere quiet (they will probably get the hint!) and do it. You never know, you may end up enjoying car sex and want to do it over and over again.