We don’t need tips to achieve good masturbation, since each body is unique and you will learn that yourself, by knowing yourself.
However, and taking into consideration that according to most studies, women do not explore themselves getting the best out of it 100%, I am going to leave some tips, so you can start the process of getting to know yourself, discovering sensations and marveling at being your own best lover.
Female masturbation is one of life’s great pleasures. It is in our hands to remove all the taboos surrounding self-indulgence so that we can enjoy it without being tied down.
What are the different types of masturbation?
Sexual pleasure is not just in the vagina. IT’S IN THE WHOLE BODY. As long as you’re covered in skin, then you have sensations.
Therefore, you can enjoy these types of masturbation: clitoral, vaginal, anal, combo and erogenous zones.
Clitoris and Vaginal
It consists of touching from top to bottom, to do this you have to focus on the clitoris. You should touch this area with your finger, rubbing it up and down.
It is best to begin by doing this technique naturally on one side and then once you feel excited, move on to stimulate it so that it is not very abrupt masturbation.
Secondly, we find slow and long caresses. These types of massages are performed by one or more fingers sliding them inside the vagina from bottom to top in a kind of long stroke.
You must take into account which is the most pleasant areas and it will also be very interesting to alternate the slow movements with other faster ones and also the pressure.
In addition, the G-spot is a greatly pleasant area whose stimulation can cause really intense orgasms in women. To masturbate women can use the shower jet, the bathtub, the pillow, and even a rolled-up towel.
Anal masturbation
It is a sexual activity in which things cannot be rushed and must be taken calmly. In particular, the anus and sphincter muscles need time to relax and get used to a new kind of contact and excitement.
For this reason, make sure you have enough time and privacy during anal masturbation, so you can concentrate on what you are feeling, without worrying about other things.
It is also recommended that if it is your first time, try to develop anal play on your own and don’t rush the penetration.
Another thing to keep in mind is lubrication, whether you insert your fingers or a dildo, you should always lubricate that area because you could suffer some kind of tearing during friction with the object.
Erogenous Zones
A woman’s erogenous zones go far beyond the vagina or clitoris. Virtually any part of the body with a high concentration of nerve endings can give you an infinite feeling of pleasure.
There are three types of erogenous zones that range from the most basic and conventional to the most unsuspected. There are three:
- Primary erogenous zones. These are the organs that must be excited to reach an orgasm. In women, the erogenous zones are the clitoris and the vagina.
- Secondary erogenous zones. They are characterized by certain parts of the skin and mucous membranes that, when excited by caresses, also activate the excitation of the primary zones and therefore multiply sexual pleasure. However, they are not indispensable for reaching orgasm. In women, they are the pubis, the buttocks, the major and minor lips, the entrance to the vagina, the perineum, the anus and, of course, the nipples.
- Potential erogenous zones. The aim is to activate a set of sensations that can stimulate the primary areas and cause vaginal wetness and arousal. These erogenous zones have an erotic dimension and vary from one person to another, both in terms of location and intensity. If you want clues, you can try with the neck, ears, around the nipples or even feet. Everyone should discover these areas of desire, which are present throughout the body.
How To Get Started
Calmly run your body with your hands from your feet to your head, feeling every part you touch. Notice if you feel more pleasure with a delicate touch or something stronger.
The touch is either circular or repeated in a straight line. Touch the soles of your feet, your scalp, your hands… what is your favorite part?
Discover how wonderful you are. Not only can you touch, but you can also pass your tongue in the places you reach.
It’s your body. You do what you want with it. Watch the parts of your body as you touch them.
Look at your breasts and stroke your nipples slowly in circles. Squeeze them, pinch them, stroke them, wonderful, huh?
Now I recommend a mirror. Take it and look at your vagina. It’s unique and it’s yours. See what color it is. What are its folds, what size is your clitoris and your major and minor lips.
With a mirror in hand, touch yourself. Discover every part of your vagina, feeling it as your own and no one else’s. Are you feeling exciting sensations somewhere more than anywhere else? Recognize it and touch it again in front of the mirror.
Spread your lips with your fingers until your clitoris is visible (this is best done sitting down, with your legs flaccid). Keep in mind, touch it gently. It is very important that you are loving and subtle with your clitoris. It has millions of nerve endings that make it extremely sensitive, so you will have to learn what pressure to touch it without hurting yourself.
You can try forming circles around it and touching it gently. Press very gently. You may want to insert your fingers as well. Be careful if you have long nails. Insert a finger first. Touch the vaginal walls and press against them. Press back and forth. You will find out where and how, you must touch to feel pleasure, in your unique and unrepeatable body.
Different positions for better masturbation
If you want to discover what you like, don’t be afraid to explore with your body. Masturbation is the best method to connect with yourself and to realize the points where you feel the most pleasure.
- Position No. 1
Lie down with your knees on your chest while inserting one or two fingers all the way in and pressing on the front wall of your vagina – as if asking someone to come over. If you want to vary the sensations, lower one of your legs and rest it on a pillow.
- Position No. 2
Lie on your stomach and bring one hand to your vagina, which you will use to stimulate your clitoris and pubic area. Increase your pleasure level by moving your hips up and down.
- Position No. 3
Lie on your side with one leg extended and the other bent while tapping your clitoris with your fingertips.
- Position No. 4
Sit on a chair and place one of your fingers underneath you. Insert it into your vagina and use it to stroke your clitoris and labia.
- Position No. 5
Place your fist over your vagina and massage the entire area superficially while controlling speed and pressure.
- Position No. 6
Lie on your stomach, place a pillow over your mons pubis and move over it as you move and enjoy the sensation.
You see. You have quite a lot of work ahead of you and to my taste, the best task of all: to discover and claim your body as your own.
Forget about the screamer in the porn, about her big breasts that don’t move because they are made of silicone and about the body without fat, because it went through liposuction.
Your body is real and it’s wonderful, just the way it is. Discover it and welcome the eternal pleasure.
